Kathleen
Marie
Simonsen
A little
baby girl.
To the naked
eye, she's not unlike any other in the maternity ward at Saint Joe's
Hospital in Paterson, New Jersey
... She certainly turned out UNLIKE any other.
... And here
we are!
Everyone pretty much knows the story of how she migrated west from
her home grounds in New England.
I think she
wound up here in equal parts due to the fact that it was pristine
... in a Wild West sort of a way ... friendly ... in a loving communal
sort of a way ... because there were many wonderful people here ... many
of whom still are! (I suspect there are many in that group who
are reading this right now.) She loved you all and I can
understand why. So many of you have turned into MY lifelong
friends as well. And I thank you all for the part you've played in
what for her was a pretty good life.
Of course
another reason I think she migrated so far west was that it was just
about as far away from the 9 Harvest Lane in North Granby
Connecticut as she could get without a passport.
Nobody will
argue she did anything conventionally. It's kind of funny that
to make this all work out in the end, she wound up convening her
whole family out here.
I'm not sure
my dad would have ever been to a rodeo, or for that matter done much
of anything that Apple led him to out here, if he were still back in the
Not-So-Wild East.
For Apple, being
out here, in the long run -- as unconventionally as it came together
helped define my family's life. I'm not sure any of us would
really be "right" living in Paterson or Passaic New Jersey ...or ...
really anyplace but our hometown here in sisters.
And thanks
to Apple I feel we have bragging rights to calling ourselves maybe
pseudo-locals. We have found a way of establishing that point to get
credibility with bona fide Sisters old-timers by learning to say "Oh
were friends of Apple" ... pretty much if that didn't get us
someplace I suspect we weren't dealing with such a bona fide
old-timer after all.
It seems
like everyone knew Apple ... A fact that my mom can attest to after
the upm-teen-eighty-th call she got over the week with good wishes
after Apple passed!
I guess were
here to celebrate her life ... her GOOD life! She had many
more years of taking it easy ... getting by on whatever there was to
get by on ... enjoying this place ... enjoying you people ... keeping
worries as low as she could ... a good life.
I think
(well I know) I was always a little envious of her. I've seen
the bumper stickers. that say roughly "No worries!" "No 9-5!"
"Enjoying Life!" "I'm Retired!"
Well, in my
book, Apple, thanks to her unusual way of living life was, the way I
saw it, "Pre-tired!"
Sadly. It
couldn't go on forever. But I've got to be grateful for the days up
at the log cabin ... for parties at the bar ... the Bloody Mary
brunches at her house feasting on the bounty of her friends and who
knows what? By that I mean, who knows what her friends
harvested cooked and quite often slayed or trapped or come upon by
who knows what means.
... Days and
nights enjoying friends at the bar when she ran it.
... Holiday
morning road trips to hang with friends.
... Hanging out
with her until all hours as she baked Christmas presents for her
friends. (She didn't have a lot of money and her home-baking was
ALWAYS appreciated by anyone on her gift list!)
... And so on.
When it cane
to making friends and finding new experiences, I'm glad to
say "We Had an APP for That!" ... long before our friends in
Cupertino started with apps..
Good wishes
to Apple.
App, you lived life
... and touched
many more people than most of us ever will.
If I didn't
know it before. I've realized it in the past week, just how many
people she touched, who she loved, and loves her back. There
was enough love out here to spill over to share with my mom, my dad and
me!
I'd like to
give special regards to Sean who helped punctuate
Apples last days with us in a good way.
She called
me about a few days before she died and was telling me how happy
she was.
Bless you
Apple. She's "APPLE" ... Kathleen Marie Simonsen Anderson Eddy. I can't imagine
Kathy as anything but Apple.
Sisters,
Oregon made her that ... and in the end ... she may not have had a
barrel of money, but she had what so many others, others who've gone
before her, wished for their whole lives ... she had friends, a
family actually ... she didn't have much, but she had so much.
And to all of you, for defining the friendships we all strive for in
life. Thank you. Bless you!
Gregg
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